Love and support in a time of sorrow (2024)

As a reporter and an editor, this past week has been one of the toughest on record.

Having to report on the death of Lake County Master Deputy Bradley Link, who was killed in a hail of bullets as he responded to a call in Eustis, is beyond difficult and not a story anyone in the media ever wants to tell.

Hearing the drama unfold from Lake County Sheriff Grinnell at a press conference was shocking to say the least. Like many, I can’t get the images out of my head.

Attending his Celebration of Life at Real Life Church in Clermont was both an honor and a privilege. I have never seen so many law enforcement personnel in one place at the same time, heads bowed in tribute to a brave young man.

There were police officers from all over the country including NYPD, Boston PD, Chicago PD, Dallas PD, Suffolk County NY, Colorado and many others. The mounted police rode solemnly by, while law enforcement helicopters flew above what must have been an incredible sea of uniformed color.

Many of them had brought their significant others. I saw men and women crying and clutching their partner’s hands tight, no doubt begging God to keep their deputies safe while thanking Him that they’re not attending their loved one’s funeral.

As Bradley’s tearful best friend Stephanie Earley took the podium first, desperately trying to keep her composure but failing, it was one of the sincerest monologues I’ve ever heard.

Even though I’ve never met any of them, it hurt to hear how close she and her husband were to Brad and his wife Brittany. She told how the two couples shared many happy hours together, whether it was partying or playing games.

It hurt because now those days have abruptly ended. No more good times as a foursome. No more memories to be made. No more laughing and joking. No more peanut and jelly sandwiches which Brittany said her husband loved.

When Sheriff Grinnell spoke in tribute to the young deputy, he revealed that concerned, Brittany called her husband on the night he died as it was getting late. One of his assailants took the phone from Brad’s person and said: “Who is this?” To which she answered: “I am Brad’s wife – who are you?”

The voice responded: “So you say that you are supposedly the dead man’s wife.” This will undoubtedly be the worst phone call of her life. I cannot imagine how she felt hearing those words and like many others in that auditorium, I cried and struggled to stop.

The proud and heartbroken wife she is, Brittany managed to pay her own tribute to her high school sweetheart. Composed, she talked about her ‘teddy bear’ who loved his life and the people in it with a passion and who adored his job as sheriff’s deputy almost as much. He was, in her words, an exceptional human being who was selfless with his time, his energy and his love.

While I was writing my article after the ceremony, trying hard to convey the beautiful farewell, I thought about this past week and one of the things that stood out for me was how the loss of one brave individual can bring a community together.

GoFundMes for Master Deputy Link and the two other officers who were injured in the ambush on August 2 have raised thousands. Business owners and leaders in South Lake have organized fund raisers to support the families. Social media was – and still is- awash with love for the Lake County Sheriff’s Office.

We could go on about the gun laws in this country and that debate is for another time, but the huge outpouring of grief and support for Master Deputy Link’s family, his friends and the Lake County Sheriff’s Office is nothing short of inspiring.

I say this level of love and care is inspiring because it shows that even in the darkest of days, we can come together as a society to lift each other, and undoubtedly, love will always win over evil.

That’s a bold statement, but one which I believe it to be true and it’s at times like this, when you’re at a loss to find the sense in the death of a young man who had every reason to live a long life, it’s a comfort to know that there are still good people in this world.

Sharon Keeble is the Editor of the Clermont Sun. If you have any thoughts on this subject, email the newspaper atskeeble@theclermontsun.com

Love and support in a time of sorrow (2024)

FAQs

Love and support in a time of sorrow? ›

A hug, holding a hand, just being with the person…all of those actions are more appreciated than you can imagine. In fact, it's almost better to say nothing, so that the grieving person has room to say what he or she needs to say.

What is the connection between love and grief? ›

Grief is firmly grounded in our capacity to give and receive love. Even though all relationships end in one way or another, the great majority of us choose to love. And when the end comes, we grieve in direct proportion to the depth of the relationship with the person we love.

What is a beautiful grieving quote for loved ones? ›

"If tears could build a stairway,and memories a lane, I'd walk right up to Heaven and bring you home again." "Although it's difficult today to see beyond the sorrow, May looking back in memory help comfort you tomorrow." "Grief is itself a medicine."

What is grief but love with nowhere to go? ›

Jamie Anderson said, “Grief, I've learned, is really just love. It's all the love you want to give, but cannot. All of that unspent love gathers in the corners of your eyes, the lump in your throat, and in the hollow part of your chest. Grief is just love with no place to go.

What do you say to someone who is grieving? ›

Things to Say to Someone in Grief:

I can't imagine what you're going through. I'm so sorry for your loss. I don't know what to say, I wish I had the right words to comfort you. You, your family and your loved one will be in my thoughts and prayers.

What does the Bible say about grief and love? ›

Psalm 34:18 “The Lord is near to the brokenhearted and saves the crushed in spirit.” Psalm 73:26 “My flesh and my heart faileth: but God is the strength of my heart, and my portion forever.” Matthew 5:4 “Blessed are they that mourn: for they shall be comforted.”

Which emotion is triggered by grief? ›

Grief is a natural response to loss. It's the emotional suffering you feel when something or someone you love is taken away. Often, the pain of loss can feel overwhelming. You may experience all kinds of difficult and unexpected emotions, from shock or anger to disbelief, guilt, and profound sadness.

What is an uplifting quote on grief? ›

When someone you love becomes a memory, that memory becomes a treasure.” “Grief can be a burden, but also an anchor. You get used to the weight, how it holds you in place.” “Life is full of grief, to exactly the degree we allow ourselves to love other people.”

What is the most comforting word? ›

What do you say to a friend going through a hard time?
  • I am so very sorry for your loss. ...
  • It makes sense to me that you might be feeling really down right now. ...
  • I'll be here for you no matter what your grief looks like.
  • There really are not words big enough to express how much tenderness I have for you right now.
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What is a famous quote about healing from grief? ›

A famous healing quote about healing from grief is from Elisabeth Kübler-Ross. She offers these gentle words of comfort: "The reality is that you will grieve forever. You will not 'get over' the loss of a loved one; you will learn to live with it.

What is grief but love that endures? ›

The phrase "What is grief, if not love persevering?" suggests that grief is a reflection of the love and connection we had with what we've lost. It implies that grief is a continuation of love, demonstrating that the emotional bond still endures, even after the person or thing is gone.

Why do we push away the ones we love when grieving? ›

This defense mechanism is known as grief brain. With so much mental activity, they can seem absent-minded, forgetful, or need more time than usual to complete simple tasks. Grief can cause people to push everything else on their to-do list by the wayside, including family and friends.

What is grief but love surviving? ›

I've never experienced loss because I've never had a loved one to lose. What is grief, if not love persevering? And that's the line: "What is grief, if not love persevering?" It comes after seven episodes in which WandaVision has slowly revealed what is working behind the scenes of this meta sitcom superhero story.

How do you uplift someone who is grieving? ›

Don't try to minimize their loss, provide simplistic solutions, or offer unsolicited advice. It's far better to just listen to your loved one or simply admit: “I'm not sure what to say, but I want you to know I care.” Be willing to sit in silence. Don't press if the grieving person doesn't feel like talking.

What is a word of comfort for grief? ›

I am/ we are so sorry for your loss. I offer/ we offer our heartfelt condolences. Holding you close in my thoughts and prayers. We are keeping you and your family in our thoughts.

Is grief evidence of love? ›

Grief is love's souvenir. It's our proof that we once loved. Grief is the receipt we wave in the air that says to the world: Look! Love was once mine.

Is grief an act of love? ›

Grief is the last act of love we give to our loved one. Where there is deep grief there is great love. Grief is a great rite of passage, it is a hero's journey of courage, of sacred battles, sorrow, love, joy and loss. Through the darkness of grief we can see the light of love which transcends death.

Can grief exist without love? ›

Grief and love go hand in hand. The deeper you love, the deeper the grief. They're containers that live alongside each other and you cannot experience one without experiencing the other at some point, for a variety of different reasons.

Is grief the absence of love? ›

Grief is all the love you had left to give. So you let it out. Love will always connect you to those you lose.

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